When Amy Chua wrote the book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, about her super-strict parenting methods, often practiced by mothers of Chinese heritage, people were divided. Supporters pointed to the success of Chinese-American children, who often excel in school, the arts, and in careers. Others felt her methods were over-the-top, even cruel at times. So, it’s interesting to hear from Kim Wong Keltner, daughter of a Tiger Mother, and author of Tiger Babies Strike Back: How I Was Raised by a Tiger Mom but Could Not Be Turned to the Dark Side.
Keltner feels she was emotionally damaged by her mother’s parenting methods. She yearned for her mother’s affection and support, and was usually denied both. Her mother frequently cited the successes of other Chinese-American children, while downplaying her daughter’s achievements. Keltner spent her life trying to please her parents, but rarely did so. And now that she is an adult, married to a man of Norwegian-German descent, she is determined not to be a Tiger Mother to her daughter.
Keltner has issued a battle call for an end to Tiger Parenting. While she understands that Chinese parents often feel it’s their job to push their kids toward success, she feels there are more negative than positive consequences to this type of strict parenting. Tiger Babies Strike Back is an eye-opening memoir about the scars that can be inflicted by a Tiger Mother.
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Tuesday, April 30th: Book Dilettante
Wednesday, May 1st: Susan Heim on Parenting
Monday, May 6th: Dreaming in Books
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